Single father adopts abandoned baby for eight years: I only want to have a household account

Nine years ago, his wife left her poor daughter, Su Guiping, with her one-year-old daughter. He decided that he would no longer be married in this life.

One year later, Su Guiping’s mother picked up an abandoned baby from the roadside. The Su family named her “Sakura,” and Su Guiping treated her like her own daughter.

In an instant, Sakura has been eight years old. However, the issue of Sakura's account has always been a boulder pressed in the heart of Su Guiping.

As Sakura grows up, Su Guiping’s heart is getting heavier and heavier: Because he and his daughter are less than 40 years old and do not meet the conditions for adoption, he wants to adopt the name of his older brother because he has two children already. It is believed that the surpassing students are required to pay a social support fee of 59,000 yuan, which is undoubtedly an astronomical figure for Su Guiping, who earns 2,000 yuan per month.

Su Guiping, a single father who barely maintains food and clothing in Guangzhou, has the desire to write his daughter's name into the Su family booklet.

● Nanfang Daily reporter Yan Kunlun intern Yu Chunyan

Short marriage â–¶ Your daughter walks away and loves picking up baby girl

Guangzhou West Baihe District Renhe Town West Lake Street, a quiet little street.

Walking down a small alley in the street, you can see a lot of three or four-story small buildings. Plants and vegetables are planted on the open space in the building. The children are playing in the old man's knees. In this small building, a bungalow looks particularly abrupt, this is the home of Su Guiping.

Since the death of her mother, Su Guiping has been living alone and her family is very concise. Because there is no time to take care of the adopted daughter Sakura, and the family has been stolen several times, Sakura does not want to stay at home, currently lives in Su Guiping's big brother home. Every time Su Guiping comes home from work, he faces the deserted house alone. However, this home has also been lively, that is Su Guiping's brief marriage nine years ago.

In 2002, Su Guiping, 35, married Ms. Deng, who is one year younger than herself. Before her marriage, Ms. Deng had been working in Hong Kong for a long time because her aunt had lived in Hong Kong and introduced her work. The original combination of Su Guiping and his wife did not receive the blessing from their aunt. After learning that they were getting married, Ms. Deng’s aunt tried to stop it.

After the marriage, Ms. Deng continued to travel between Hong Kong and Guangzhou frequently, which became an important factor in the instability of the marriage between the two men. Afterwards, Ms. Deng’s aunt bought a hotel for her at her hometown, and Su Guiping, at that time, was still earning money on the passengers of Kadah in the streets of Renhe Town.

Their feelings are getting weaker and lighter. A year later, the birth of her daughter did not restore their original marriage. Shortly after the child was born, Ms. Deng changed her daughter's birthplace to her hometown, Qingyuan City. After that, he lived in Hong Kong for a long time. There was no audio.

In 2004, the two men formally divorced on the grounds of "discordant personality." Since then, Su Guiping never saw his own daughter.

"I will never get married again, and I'll be alone for the rest of my life!" Su Guiping felt desperate for the marriage and often sent such a sigh.

The listener was interested in the mother Cao Ah who had been living with Su Guiping. He was worried about his son and worried about his son's future. "If I were old, who would stay with my son? Who will give him pension in the future?"

At the beginning of February 2004, when Sumu Road crossed the Jiangjiang Road junction, a carton was found and the cry of the baby was accompanied. It turned out to be a baby girl who was born soon. “The date of birth is also written on the paper.” Looking at the crying baby girl, Aunt Cao really couldn’t bear to say, “The son isn’t planning to get married, so let’s keep this child well. Aunt Cao took the baby girl back.

Su Guiping also liked the baby girl very much and named it as "Sakura" according to the Su family tree. Due to work reasons, Su Guiping did not have time to take care of Sakura. Although Su mother is 74 years old, she can still do it for herself, feeding her baby powder, changing diapers, sleeping with Sakura, and raising the little girl to be fat and white.

The father and daughter depend on each other.

In 2005, Sakura was diagnosed with mild asthma at the age of two and was dependent on drugs to stabilize his condition.

In 2006, Aunt Cao died. Before her death, she was relieved that Su Guiping was the "father and daughter." She gave her son the only savings of 5,000 yuan to her son. "Leave Sakura aside for tuition, and treat her well."

Su Guiping, who could not be distracted by his work, could only hand over her daughter to her sister's support. He would regularly pay her sister’s living expenses every month, and every day she would go to work with her sister’s family to accompany Sakura.

In 2009, 5-year-old Sakura has reached school age. Su Guiping took Sakura back home. Because Sakura did not want to be at home alone, she stayed in Su Geuping’s brother’s home, separated by a street.

Although Sakura rarely returns home, Su Guiping has kept a room for Sakura. “The room has been prepared for her for a long time. Beds and wardrobes are newly bought. There are snacks such as biscuits and milk on the bed. The family has something for her at any time. I hope she can go home.” The 45-year-old The man talks about Sakura and shows his love.

On the wall of the living room, a picture of Sakura's kindergarten was hung, and an innocent smile hung on the pale face, and a pair of big eyes looked brightly at the camera. "She was very cute when she was a child. She is a little taller now. She is also thinner and more beautiful."

After work every day, Su Guiping will visit the big brother's house to visit Sakura and talk to her about school life. “This season is easy to catch a cold and it's easy to get a cold if you have a cold.” Sakura needs to spray a bottle of “Someteprocatefaxone Inhaler” every month. This medicine costs 190 yuan per bottle, plus another 60 yuan. Fixed drugs. If the cold flower costs more medicine. In addition to the 500 yuan living expenses for his brother every month, Su Guiping has less than 2,000 yuan in wages every month. “I once went to hire a bus driver, but the other person thinks that I am too old to work for a few years. Now I can only do some factory delivery work.”

At noon yesterday, the Nanfang Daily reporter saw Sakura coming home from school. Her thin body was wrapped in a light blue school uniform. The little girl in the photo had become a doll head. Perhaps it was the reason that Su Guiping did not live under the same roof for a long time. It wasn't as imaginative as to see Daddy's Sakura. Before Su Gui's plane, Sakura was somewhat restrained. "My brother and my sister are too petting her. With her willful temper tantrums, she also rules in front of me."

After simply answering a few questions from her father, Sakura went to the opposite shop to buy a bowl of instant noodles and returned to eat silently. "Usually my brother has no time for cooking. She is in a nearby restaurant."

Someone once saw Su Guiping’s very difficult life with Sakura. He suggested that he send Sakura to the orphanage and he was firmly rejected by Su Guiping. “I’ll have to raise her again if she gets tired again. We can’t bear to put Sakura. Send welfare homes."

Difficulties in getting home â–¶ I just want to adopt an abandoned baby. Why is it so difficult?

From her mother's day of returning to Sakura, Su Guiping had treated her as her own daughter, and Sakura's account problems have also plagued Su Guiping.

Because of the village's proof, Sakura was able to go to school in the local village and is currently in second grade. "But the school has been urging many times, need to pay account information, if you do not pay each year you have to pay a 10,000 yuan sponsorship fee." Each month more than two thousand yuan wage Su Guiping can not afford this sponsorship fee. At the same time, if the hukou issue is not properly resolved, Sakura can not successfully enter the local junior high school.

In recent years, Su Guiping has been running around for the account of Sakura, and his work has been delayed many times. If Sakura is ill, she must also take her around to see a doctor. Usually there is time for Su Guiping to buy many nutrients to visit Sakura. Although hard, Su Guiping never complained. What makes him feel helpless is that the account issue cannot be implemented.

Su Guiping once went to Guangzhou Municipal Civil Affairs Bureau to request the adoption of Sakura, but he did not meet the adoption conditions. According to Article 9 of the "Law of the People's Republic of China on Adoption," where a male with no spouse adopts a female, the age of the adopter and the adoptee should be more than 40 years old. Su Guiping and Sakura are 37 years old.

Helplessly, Su Guiping hopes to hang Sakura's account in his brother’s home. The Guangzhou Municipal Civil Affairs Bureau told Su Guiping that the relevant formalities need to fill in the form of “Reporting the child’s birth certificate”. The police station and the Civil Affairs Bureau stamped the certificate.

The Renhe Town Planning Office believes that Su Guiping’s older brother already has two children. If Sakura is adopted by his family, he is a super-born student. According to the 2004 super-birth regulations, a social support fee of 59,000 yuan must be paid. This is an astronomical figure for Su Guiping, who is just able to maintain home.

Since April last year, Su Guiping has repeatedly found a family planning office. “I'm not unwilling to pay, but I really have no money. Can I have less exchange points?” The staff of the family planning office said that this is in accordance with the regulations. If you want to negotiate, Can only find the director of Chen Shuiping. Ke Suguiping had been there several times and he had not found the director. "Either at the meeting or on vacation, I still have no office phone call. How can I find him?"

At present, only the West Lake Village Committee gives "agreement" and seals. The police station and the Civil Affairs Bureau both stated that they must be approved by the People's and Town Planning Offices to affix their seals before they can accept the formalities for adoption.

Su Guiping, who was struggling between departments, was exhausted. He always felt that he had not done anything wrong. “I just wanted to adopt an abandoned baby and give her a family and a legal identity. Why is this? Difficult?"

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