Blind woman suffers from serious illness. Her daughter abandoned her before she died

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Yu Shirong, 53, is blind and suffers from paralysis of his right limb, ascites, cirrhosis, and cerebrovascular disease. On February 27 this year, Yu Shirong’s daughter Xiaonan (a pseudonym) and her boyfriend spent 2,000 yuan to drive Yu Shirong from Dalian to Anshan, and abandoned her grandfather’s downstairs. After the incident was disclosed, Xiaonan admitted through the media, but said that he did not return to Anshan to take care of his mother in the near future. He will work hard to earn money for his mother.

As a result of cirrhosis and ascites, severe diabetes and cerebrovascular diseases, coupled with years of poor living and untimely diagnosis and treatment, Yu Shirong, who was extremely weak, came to the end of his life at 6:40 am on March 9.

For the first 6 days of her stay in the intensive care unit, she was wise and clear-headed and recited her daughter's name. Four days after she fell into a coma, she walked with deep regret and she could not see her missing daughter.

Family abandoned treatment after falling into a coma

On the morning of March 9th, Yu Shirong, like the previous three days, continued to live without any reaction to the work of auxiliary equipment such as ventilators.

She does not know the mood of her daughter in Dalian at this moment, nor does she know the decisions of relatives who have rushed to the hospital. "We are all ordinary people and nobody has much power..."

Yu Shirong’s older brother was very toneless on the phone yesterday and was quite helpless. “Can you understand that these years in order to treat Shi Rong, not only did Xiao Nan’s savings go away, but relatives and friends also tried their best to help her. There is no way..."

With the consent of the family members, the doctor gave up the treatment. Yu Shirong’s older brother said that although he had been admitted to the intensive care unit, “there was almost no medicine to use, so it would cost 5,000 yuan a day and could not afford it.”

The doctor in the intensive care unit said that Yu Shirong, who was extremely sick and swelled in his abdomen, slammed his daughter's name before he fell into a coma and said, "I want to see my daughter and I don't complain about her daughter."

She said that her daughter is a good boy and she is filial

Yu Shirong knew on March 2 that her daughter apologized to herself and the society through the media. At the beginning, she “don’t believe”. Later she said that her daughter was a good boy, very filial, and able to appreciate her daughter. On the same day, community cadres also began to apply for subsistence allowances for Yu Shirong.

On March 5, Yu Shirong’s sober second-day countdown. In the bed, she faced the family she came to visit and continued to chant the phrase “I miss my daughter” that repeated many times. What she neglected was that Xiaonan had no courage to face her at this time. In the face of relatives and friends, she faced doctors, changed her residence in Dalian and turned off her mobile phone.

Yu Shirong, who was extremely frail, fell into a coma late on the 6th and never woken up again.

Wait for Komoro? Family members are in conflict

At 6:40 am on the morning of the 9th, when the doctor announced the death of the patient, he did not stop the Shiroi’s relatives from calling the burial car to send the body to the funeral home, despite the fact that more than 10,000 yuan of medical expenses were not cleared.

Things are not as "liberating" as their relatives think. They dare not tell the bad news to the 80-year-old father of Shi Rong, and Xiaonan cannot contact. Waiting a few days to say it again has become the consensus of friends and relatives.

"Xiao-nan never returned the same thing. She must be aware of her mother's situation through the Internet and the newspaper. She may not dare to show up. The money she owes to the hospital cannot expect her to return. Waiting for her, cremated it." He paused and said, "How can you not allow Kogusu to see Mum afterwards? Where is she? Come back quickly and make a phone call!"

Xiaonan's family: Kotasu is very sensible and filial

When talking to reporters last night, Yu's older brother sighed more than words. “Xiao Nan did spend a lot of money on her mother’s treatment. She did not lie. I once saw piles of medical receipts in her bag. ""She received Shi Rong from Dalian for what he meant to do filial piety!" He said with emotion. "Xiao Nan's book is not much read, but he is very sensible and filial. When she was young, she went out to work and live." There was a slight improvement, and I did not forget the mother who suffered severely in Anshan. So many people are condemning her. This is not fair!"

Yu Shirong’s elder brother asked the society to make things difficult for Xiao Nan. “She is still young and it is definitely wrong to drop her mother. However, her family thinks that she shouldn’t take full responsibility. She has already undertaken a lot. I hope she can come back and her family is not. To blame her, or to be a round family, regardless of society."

Reporter's notes

Komoro, mom wants you to be happy

Xiaonan, everything is over. From the moment my mother left the world, everything was over. She will never leave with a grudge against you, because before she left, she was still talking to you. Because the daughter is the mother's heart.

In her mother’s eyes, her daughter is always a child. So for her daughter to do something wrong, my mother would always laugh and forgive and tolerate.

Kogusu, your mother knew you apologized to her before she died. It is not difficult to see that she had forgiven her for the moment's mistake. Otherwise, she will not tell us that you take good care of her; nor will you say, "My daughter is a good daughter, but she may be filial;" and she will not say "Mom can forgive you."

When you learn about the news of your mother's death, I believe that childhood laughter and warm embrace of your mother. The warmth of the scenes and scenes will come with your tears in your mind. I shouted "Mom, I love you" in the direction of my mother's departure.

Kogusu, take a good look at the future and take a good life. There will be no companionship with my mother in the days that follow. You must live independently. It may be hard but frankly. In fact, many people want you to be good.

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